10 tell-tale signs that he's not in love with you

(not for the faint and sensitive hearted.)

you love him? i dont doubt that you do. does he love you? hmmmm... YES? are you sure? here are some signs that he doesnt.

1. He did not PURSUE you the right way.
Men are designed to pursue and girls, well, you are to be pursued. Thats how it was, and that's how it will be. How does a guy pursue a girl?
*He first pursues the Creator. He should ask you from God.
*Second, he should make it a point to pick you up from your house and to bring you home when you are going out. Never ever let him tell you, "I'll just drop you off at the bus station." or "Let's just wait for the jeep to your place here and then I'll go home."
*Third, he should initiate talking to your parents about his intentions towards you. Girls, if you are the one initiating this, trust me, the guy does not really want to meet your parents.

2. You have to pressure him about the "US" thing.
Have you ever asked a guy, "So, when will it be official for the two of us?" Hello! Girls, in the first place, if the guy pursued you, you wouldnt have to pressure him about the "US" thing. He is already committed to you the moment he asked you if he can pursue you. Well, that is if he pursued you. If he didnt, well you really have to pressure him and most often than not, he will be pressured to commit but his heart is really not into it.

3. When in public, he tends to walk ahead of you especially when he sees someone he knows.
Is it still hard to decipher? The guy will be proud to tell the world YOU are HIS GIRL if he truly loves you! And he wouldnt want to be an inch apart from you. So if you notice that he keeps his distance from you especially when there are people around, think twice about his true feelings for you.

4. Check the albums he upload on Facebook. If the album is composed of your photos alone, check the settings if it's viewable by you alone. Most often than not, he did not really want to upload this. You wanted him to. Im not saying you snoop around his profile. Just check if your friends see the album or not. This would go back to the reason that he is not proud of you.

5. He does not want a photo of the 2 of you as his profile photo. Need i say more?

6. You've been together for a year or two yet he has not really made an effort for you to meet his parents. Hello! A man should be in a relationship with you because he sees himself getting married to you. Thats the main aim of relationships. Not just for companionship. So if he does not make an effort for you to meet his parents, that may only mean, he does not see you as the daughter-in-law of his parents.

7. When you fight, you apologize all the time! I repeat, ALL the TIME.
Too much ego and pride on his side that he does not want to admit his mistakes? Girls, a true man will never be afraid to admit his mistakes. And a man who truly loves you will swallow his pride just to fix the relationship with you.

8. He hates it when you become friends with his friends.
Well, who knows your man better than you do? his buddies. So when he gets freakin pissed off that you added his friends on facebook and you chat with them, trust me there are things he does not want to tell you that this friends know. IF a guy truly loves you, he wouldnt have a problem leaving you in the company of his friends. Because if he truly loves you, he should trust you enough to tell you everything. As in EVERYTHING.

9. You walk into a wedding supplier store and in as fast as 10 seconds he's out the door.
You want to get married? You want him to propose? Check if he wants the same. Bring him to a wedding supplier store. If he is uneasy, wants to leave quickly, dashed out as fast as he can before you can even utter 'Honey what do you think?" or wont even go inside, you might be living in the fantasy that he wants to marry you! The guy is either afraid to commit, or afraid to commit to you.

10. You have to plead with him to do things for you.
Why plead? A guy who truly loves you would happily do things for you. He would love serving you, doing things for you and making you smile because he did them. You wont have to plead. You shouldnt. Because if he truly loves you, he will do everything for you. Even if that would mean he would have to cross the oceans to get you the nicest pearls, or climb the mountains and catch you a hummingbird, he will do those things.